In this video I talk about letting go of the feeling that you are somehow responsible for his infidelity.
There are a few reasons why you may find yourself feeling this way:
- He may be blaming you in subtle, or not so subtle ways in order to escape taking responsibility for what he has done. That is on him.
- Our spouse's unfaithfulness is a major source of rejection and abandonment. This often triggers feelings of not being good enough.
The truth is, the reasons for choosing infidelity are many.
Each of those reasons points back to him every time.
He alone, took the steps to break his commitment to you. There were other choices he could have made - but he chose infidelity.
Getting to the bottom of why he gave himself permission to be deceptive and unfaithful can be a challenge.
His reasons are probably not what you think they are, so keep an open mind on this.
And always remember that you are truly an amazing woman!
You are worthy.
And you are not responsible for the actions of someone else.
Hope and healing . . .
Roberta Wands, M.A.