Infidelity Recovery Principle: Creating A Safe Marriage Through Healing Conversations With Your Spouse

Infidelity Recovery Principle: Creating A Safe Marriage Through Healing Conversations With Your Spouse

In today's video I talk about identifying what you want and need from your spouse so you can begin creating a safe marriage - one which is created through healing conversations with your spouse.

Healing conversations which are safe for both of you are critical to the success of your personal recovery and your marriage.

I explore how to make calm, respectful requests of your spouse, being careful to avoid angry outbursts, threats, or simply "venting" your feelings.

You Did Not Cause Him To Choose Infidelity: A Video About His Personal Responsibility For His Actions.

You Did Not Cause Him To Choose Infidelity: A Video About His Personal Responsibility For His Actions.

In this video I talk about letting go of the feeling that you are somehow responsible for his infidelity.

There are a few reasons why you may find yourself feeling this way:

  •  He may be blaming you in subtle, or not so subtle ways in order to escape taking responsibility for what he has done. That is on him.

  •  Our spouse's unfaithfulness is a major source of rejection and abandonment. This often triggers feelings of not being good enough.

The truth is, the reasons for choosing infidelity are many.

Each of those reasons points back to him every time.

He alone, took the steps to break his commitment to you. There were other choices he could have made - but he chose infidelity.