After Discovering Infidelity: Do We Really Need To Talk About The Details?

After Discovering Infidelity: Do We Really Need To Talk About The Details?

I recently received a question via email from a married woman who is currently taking my free Serial Infidelity email course.

Here is the problem she currently faces in her marriage:

"I've caught him flirting with more than one woman on text messages, each time he says he does not know what got into him and it will not happen again.

Recently I caught him flirting, with more texts that are too sexual, and it seems as if he slept with them.

The problem is, he doesn't want to talk about it . . . I really want to hear from him why he did it, and what exactly happened.

Am I asking for too much?

Can Your Marriage Survive Infidelity? How To Know If Recovery Is Possible

Can Your Marriage Survive Infidelity? How To Know If Recovery Is Possible

"How do I know whether to end my marriage, or try to make it work after discovering infidelity?"

This is a question I was recently asked via email, and it's one I've been asked many times before.

I decided it would be best to answer this question on the blog because you may be trying to figure that out too.

After all, you have given years of your heart and life to this marriage. And for that reason, it deserves serious, thoughtful consideration.

Ending a marriage is a really difficult decision to make - even after infidelity.

I do think underlying the question, "How do I know whether to end my marriage, or try to make it work?" is another question:

Is there any hope for my marriage after discovering infidelity?

In this article, we'll look at what needs to happen in order to tip the odds of infidelity recovery success in your favor . . .

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder After Infidelity Betrayal: How To Cope Personally & In Your Marriage

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder After Infidelity Betrayal: How To Cope Personally & In Your Marriage

Because May is Mental Health Awareness Month I decided to write about something you may have a lot of experience dealing with: The symptoms of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD,) after discovering infidelity betrayal.

Knowing about the symptoms of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and how to cope with them personally, and in your marriage is so important.

In fact, it is just as important to know about PSTD as it is to know about the symptoms of infidelity grief because you are more than likely experiencing the symptoms of both.

It's really no wonder that it takes so much time and effort to fully recover after discovering infidelity in your relationship . . .

A Big "Thank You" For Reading: You've Made This A Popular Infidelity Blog On The Web!

A Big "Thank You" For Reading: You've Made This A Popular Infidelity Blog On The Web!

I want to thank you so much for reading this infidelity blog.

I've watched the readership grow each month and it fills my heart with joy.

My mission at BETRAY NO MORE is to:

Transform The Hearts And Lives Of Women Through Inspiration, Education, And Support After Experiencing Infidelity And Betrayal Grief.

But beyond that, I feel very strongly that no woman should ever have to go through the heartbreak of infidelity all alone . . .

The Aftermath Of Infidelity & Betrayal In Your Relationship: How To Create Safety & Healing When Talking To Him About Infidelity

The Aftermath Of Infidelity & Betrayal In Your Relationship: How To Create Safety & Healing When Talking To Him About Infidelity

In this article, I'm going to share 4 specific steps you can take to:

  • Establish safety, trust, and healing during your interactions with your spouse.
  • Promote your personal healing.
  • Make relationship repair progress possible.

It's time to begin turning down the volume on this crisis so you can begin to build a solid foundation of connection in your relationship.

5 Infidelity Myths That Prolong Betrayal Grief After Discovering Infidelity In Marriage

5 Infidelity Myths That Prolong Betrayal Grief After Discovering Infidelity In Marriage

Today I thought it would be helpful to talk about 5 common infidelity myths that can prolong betrayal grief for women after discovering infidelity in marriage.

Although there are certainly more infidelity myths out there than the ones I'm covering in this article, these 5 tend to do a lot of damage to a woman's self-esteem.

These 5 myths can cause unnecessary emotional pain for you and that's the last thing you need when trying to overcome infidelity grief.

So, are you ready to start our exploration of the 5 infidelity myths that prolong betrayal grief after discovering infidelity in marriage?

If so, read on . . .

How To Embrace Self-Trust After Discovering Infidelity In Marriage: Because Lies Can Be A Problem

How To Embrace Self-Trust After Discovering Infidelity In Marriage: Because Lies Can Be A Problem

It's time to talk about an issue you are likely to face after discovering infidelity in marriage: how to hold on to your reality and embrace self-trust, even as the lies and deception continue to come your way.

Discovering infidelity in marriage is bad enough.

What makes it even worse is dealing with the lies and denial you get once you ask for the details of what happened, and why it happened.

Trying to get to the truth is often when major lying games begin.

Here are 4 tips to help you stay loyal to yourself, embrace self-trust, and become proactive when he isn't willing to openly tell you what happened . . .

How To Reclaim Your Self-Confidence After Infidelity In Marriage: 5 Ways To Begin Feeling Better

How To Reclaim Your Self-Confidence After Infidelity In Marriage: 5 Ways To Begin Feeling Better

Are you wondering how to reclaim your self-confidence after discovering betrayal and infidelity in marriage?

If so, this article was written especially for you.

We are going to look at 4 ways your self-confidence takes a hit after infidelity discovery, and 5 ways you can begin reclaiming the self-confident woman you once were.