After Discovering Infidelity: Do We Really Need To Talk About The Details?

After Discovering Infidelity: Do We Really Need To Talk About The Details?

I recently received a question via email from a married woman who is currently taking my free Serial Infidelity email course.

Here is the problem she currently faces in her marriage:

"I've caught him flirting with more than one woman on text messages, each time he says he does not know what got into him and it will not happen again.

Recently I caught him flirting, with more texts that are too sexual, and it seems as if he slept with them.

The problem is, he doesn't want to talk about it . . . I really want to hear from him why he did it, and what exactly happened.

Am I asking for too much?